Dont let the pass bite you in the ass

Hello, this is your fellow anti-social presenting to you another unseen blog post. So today I will being discussing about how the past takes up a lot of future time. Lets use a typical example, a useless one that isn't as great as people think it is- Being in a relationship. Now, personally I've never been in an official relationship but I've been through the why wont ___ call me back phase. I've seen it all. And what just hit me, like a gasp of fresh air (cheesy reference) is that we waste soooo much time on the past that it takes up future time. Take notes peeps, because unless you know in your gut that what you're doing is the right thing or something you love, don't spend too much time on it. I'm mostly talking about people not activities. People who do this- you know who you are. Another type from someone who has no idea how physcollogy works.
-Stay flawless <3

Cocky & Confident

So, heres another lesson that I hope will be useful is the MAJOR difference between being cocky and confident:
               First off, don't be fooled. Most times you're brain might be like "oh, i'm above that" or "I am so hot I can do anything and no one can stop me, and I am allowed to make fun of everyone else but no one can make fun of me, I'M INVINCIBLE!" Okay so maybe not so much the second one but it's very easy to confuse the two cocky and confident because some people who used to be self-conscious  about themselves have two roads to go down: Cocky and Confident. Being Confident isn't as easyas being Cocky, because Cocky switches your brain over from being so sad and lonely and thinking your ugly: To being the best person ever. Now being Confident, you don't need to remind yourself your beautiful because you already know, you don't need to look in the mirror to know you look good because you know, you laugh when people make fun of you because you can finally accept the truth about your personality. I just don't want anyone to got through what I went through, I though I was confident for a while, but then realized I was being Cocky. Huge difference, but if we only know one way, how can we know were doing the wrong thing?
                            Don't be confused, get it right! <3

LEARN FROM YOUR PAST

Hola,
      Today's (more like tonight's) lesson will be to learn the difference between what has been right and whats right. In simpler terms: What was good for you in your past, and what is good for you. And for me, (probs not for most people) its very damn conflicting. Just know that whats good for your future is more important then what is good for you right now (talking to all of my ADHD relatives, I AM ONE OF YOU). Just think ahead, not saying to not live in the now. Because now is all there is, but just be careful. Dont fuck yourself over for something cheap that wont help you at all in the long run. Because I know we all do this as humans, but were all different humans, (trying to be deep here). But sometimes moving on, taking that extra step, becoming more than just a human, is the best option.

HEYO AGAIN... WITHIN TWO DAYS!

So just wanted to say a  quick thing of "I have an email" so you know, you can talk to me if you want to...
*COUGHS "I have no friends" jk lol but seriously... Anyhow so ya even though no one follows this page yet and that's fine i just wanted to post my email so I'll shut up now and give it:
AllieinWonderlavine@gmail.com

BTDUBS: So ya, hit me up if you want to... Bye <3

HELLO!

Hey, my name is Allie Lavine, I'm 16 years old and I'm here for any reasons that people might be led to self-harm, have thoughts about suicide, ect. I'm not going to tell you to stop right away, I'm just here to listen to the story of your life. I've been through it and I know how it is not to have anyone there for you, so here I am! If you want to follow to get my weekly blogs you can! Whatever floats your boat!